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Every Miss competition is about beauty. What does beusty mean for you? Beauty is not just about how a person looks like, in outward shape. This is just an icing on a cake. The beauty should be mainly hidden inside of a person. You can recognize a beautiful person according to his eyes, according to love he spreads around, who is pure inside. When I say “A beautiful person”, who you think about immidiately? My grandmother, Mother Theresa, lady Diana, but also many priests, my friends or an actor Libuse Safrankova. Your life goal? Total happiness. To have a family, where all will smile, all will be happy – and thus I will be happy myself. That is enough for me. Keep giving – and you will get then. I can see it – when I bring a little something to Rozarka, who is six eyars old, how her eyes shine, how happy she is. There is no medicament against HIV,what would you recommend to stop the pandemics? Pure relationship. It is difficult to abstain sexually before marriage, especially in nowadays. But I believe it is logical and it has a purpose. It can happen, that a young girl decided to be pure till her wedding, she can fall in love in a boy, who has already had some girls before. I means, that he can not give her what she gives to him. And it is not fair. I like a club of „young ones and pure ones“, which was set up by a singer Rebecca St. James. And to those, who are not pure and don’t know if they can be again, I have a good news: there is a higher way to go. God can forgive you if you really repent. Just stand up and keep going. Imagine, you are on the stage in front of many young people and you have two minutes to tell them something. All people are gazing at you… What would you say? Stop gazing at me (laugh). Well – seriously: young people very often feel lonely. So I would tell them, that they are never alone, because God is with them – both with those who believe in Him as well as with those who do not. I would encourage them to love each other. That is enough. It is the fundament of the Christianity anyway.
What do you think about ACET lectures? Do they make any difference? For sure! I visited some lecures and it was really amazing experience. When an educator talked about marital purity, I saw many people touched inside. Is it easy for you to abstain sexually before you get married? To be faithful? It is not easy at all. On the contrary, it is one of the most difficult things to do. Especially today. But it is necessary both to pray and to be obedient. And avoiding places, where one could be tempted. If both young partners are believers, it is easier, especially when they have a common priest. They can share together, confess mutually, and the priest can advise and help them. But a dictate of current life style is to fall in love, to have sex quickly. Who is different, is considerd as “a strange one.” Well, I date a boy who had a few girls before me. He did not grow in the Christian environment, but I pray for him, so that he can become a believer. Of course I am sorry that he can not give me virginity, a gift I want to give him. But on the other hand I know that he is sorry for that. And that he appreciates me very much. He visits church with me and because of me. And gradually, after he met my family, he found out, that Christians are quite normal people.
Why do people get divorced? Perhaps a foolish romance. Perhaps they got married too young. And perhaps they did not save sex to marriage. I think, that two spouses without previous sexual experience does not have to compare. But spuses who had much sexual experience, later can get bored each other, they looked for lovers… And infidelity and divorce are next steps. Moreover, people are very much influenced by a current opinion – it is normal to get divorced and remarry again. I also believe that it is different to get married in the church or in the city hall. It seems that in the city hall people take the marital covenent less seriously and then it is easier to get divorced.
So – would you like to become oficially the “Face of ACET Czech Republic”? It would be a great opportunity. It s a responsible decision, but I think that I haev many other responsibilities, and I will be privileged to carry this responsibility too. I do not want to dissapoint people who trust me – my family, my Salesian community, my friends. Questions were asked by: František Krampota, director of ACET CZ Interview was made in a cooperation with BMT (www.bmt.cz)
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